Casually Explained: Breaking The Ice

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1-Noy, 2016

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Hell Smoke
Hell Smoke Kun oldin
Is engineering worth it? Thought about taking it
X-01 Unknown
X-01 Unknown 3 kun oldin
There is a big contradiction in this video and I want to offer some wisdom so that Casually Explained’s 1.9 mill subscribers don’t get stuck acting out this self defeating and absolutely misinformed cycle. Guys especially, listen up. He asks “what would a not weird person do?”. A non-weird person would act normal. Normal means exactly the same things as regular, ordinary, typical, average, standard and unexceptional. The opposite of normal is unique. This should be common knowledge to all native English speakers. Now the contradiction comes when he suggests that you “sit right and wait for the alcohol to give you a personality.”. If you were weird then you already had one. Let me ask you all, since when has getting drunk ever made you significantly better at anything? Sure you might be having more fun at the bar if you’re drunk, but it’s only because your perception and judgement are inhibited become more like a disability. You thought you danced like Michael Jackson that night, but your dancing really looked like an opossum as it gets squished beneath a tire. You thought you sang karaoke like Robert Plant but you really sounded like a nail was driven through your shoe on every line. You shouldn’t avoid having fun and doing your own thing no matter what it looks like to others, you may even have made their night with laughter. That’s always a win! But getting tipsy or drunk is only boosting your fun meter while reducing your ability to do anything else above the skill level of sitting, “walking” and breathing, and even those can be failed once you’ve taken enough time to “get a personality”. He is essentially suggesting you drink until you forget yourself and that absence should be replaced with someone who is loud and fake. Assuming you actually do like this girl at the bar or club, then you want her to show interest in you so you can ask her out. If she says yes, what happens when the time comes to go o that date and you aren’t the “personality” that she agreed to go out with? Get drunk again? What about the second date? Get drunk again so she will never know who you are or what you’re like? You surprisingly fall in love and want to be with her forever and you must drink to be the mask that you made. Congratulations, you’ve become a full fledged alcoholic who will die early of liver failure. The word “weird” in this video should be substituted with “creepy” since the examples he gave represent that well. Being weird makes you unique, being unique makes you exotic and offers a certain special magnetism to it because it’s generally refreshing amongst the sea of average, normal people. What’s important is achieving some self confidence and embracing what’s unique about you so that you can present it in a fun or sophisticated way. You don’t have to pretend to be someone else. It will just make you miserable and lonely even if you do get the girl. Don’t be creepy but absolutely be unique! Be weird and interesting! It’s what separates you from the herd and what will land you in a relationship that is actually worth being in. Cheers to the weirds!
Antonian 5 kun oldin
This is the most relateable video I have ever seen
hugo valls sabater
hugo valls sabater 5 kun oldin
“your mom”
one tome plz
one tome plz 6 kun oldin
What is self astiam
one tome plz
one tome plz 6 kun oldin
She looks like my real hot sister sweet home Alabama were they sky are blu
Sub to pewds
Sub to pewds 6 kun oldin
This man is the human embodyment of sarcasm
m7md for games
m7md for games 8 kun oldin
Think of what not wierd person do
Stefan Brockelbank
Stefan Brockelbank 9 kun oldin
Actual wholesome ending for once ;D
~NekoIDreamZz~ 10 kun oldin
Gay guy 1:2 Girls That's my stats I'm 21 btw and would consider myself as 6/10
Tony Pan
Tony Pan 11 kun oldin
This guy gets it.
240pixel 14 kun oldin
Casually struck up a conversation about dogs with a girl in Florida beach. Fast forward 2 months and we are a couple lol. Wasn't as hard. If I can do it. So can you!
John Kessler
John Kessler 17 kun oldin
No gay guys have hit on you? I figured they would like stick figures.
Insert Channel Name
Insert Channel Name 19 kun oldin
1:22 I don’t get the joke here
Hannex *_*
Hannex *_* 11 kun oldin
He wrote it in the script and now hes regretting it
Kevin Mahaffey
Kevin Mahaffey 22 kun oldin
I would guess that women don't want to approach guys because they, like men, are scared to be rejected. Women are just people. They are not some foreign alien species.
Kekes 23 kun oldin
What If I have been aproached by both gay guys and a couple of girls, one girl used to be really into me but she was a bit of a freak and I have had sex but still feel like utter useless worthles shit?
TheOneBadAssGamer 23 kun oldin
I’ve been asked out by girls three times that I can remember. 1 time I said yes 2 times no thanks let’s just be friends. I’m ugly but not that thirsty. At least not yet check back in 5 years when I’ve started balding.
Zackery Toler
Zackery Toler 25 kun oldin
I’ve been asked out by more gay guys than girls....
I fucking love these
Mutant Spartacus
Mutant Spartacus 27 kun oldin
All of this shit is why America is falling apart, everyone wants to glorify the players and Trumps of the world who create nothing and punish the hard workers who make almost everything. They not only set you up to fail, they use women as a carrot to whip you into place, but women wont give you the purpose you seek. Don't have kids either, just another enslavement mechanism (gotta get them dental!), then the kids grow up and take your place as pawns.
Muddy Prophet
Muddy Prophet 27 kun oldin
Me "hey when do you get off" Girl I like "11:00" Me "ok cool ill get off at 11 too" Girl "wtf why" me "do you want to go out with me tonight?" Girl "you're weird" can I get an F in the chat boys?
CliccBait Dániel Seres
You are a bad engineer if you just keep thinking what would happen if... You gotta make it small and test it if it works out and eventually you will find the perfect way to approach women
Lynda Kerep
Lynda Kerep Oy oldin
Rejection is gods protection
Zayac the_Engineer
I'm fifteen and I feel like I'm being friendzoned by every girl in existence, so my actions are as good as nothing. Soooo... I just sit at home playing video games all the free time! And feel kinda awesome and shitty at the same time.
Matt B
Matt B Oy oldin
When you treat this video like a comedic joke, but then realize how accurate and deep it is because it is the painful truth with no sugar coating. :'(
Destiny 18
Destiny 18 Oy oldin
Damn I guess I am always drunk 😂
I fit in that 95% I guess
Billz Oy oldin
I’ve had more gay men ask me out than straight girls and I’m a straight man
MaximusRex Oy oldin
The only time girls approach u is when their friends do it first but u can never tell if they're serious or just screwing with u
What I do for success with girls is I just never talk to that person And then want to kill my self every night
WebX 2 oy oldin
It *is* a shit double-standard though. Like of COURSE women are going to be approached too often and of COURSE some guys are going to take rejection a lot more seriously than they should, when all of the pressure is on them. I can't understand why a woman would want to reinforce this, as basically all the issues they face in the dating world stem from this particular pressure. I'd say over half the the girls I've dated initiated in some way and I almost always stayed friends or became friends with girls I turned down. But there's another secret here: I'd say as long as you are interacting with people with no intention on actively seeking out a date, then girls often *do* initiate, but it's usually in indirect signs since there is still pressure against them being blunt. But yeah, just a message to the girls. Guys pretty much never get compliments. Girls don't give them to us. Guys don't give them to us. And many guys end up creating fictional egos in order to cope with this total lack of feedback. Not surprisingly those egos are fragile, yes. We're in a constant state of "nobody would love me unless I'm useful". I don't know what the solution would be, but taking the pressure off would be a good first start.
Wes Lou
Wes Lou 2 oy oldin
I dont try at all. And I shoot them down on the rare occasion that they hit on me
Zdeněk 2 oy oldin
If you approach someone just show her your snapping skill. It's lit, mate.
Folie Deux
Folie Deux 2 oy oldin
Rejection is -part of- my life
Kyle Reich
Kyle Reich 2 oy oldin
Hey, girls approach me all the time... it's usually to either tell me about their boyfriend or ask me what I think about how things are going in her relationship with her boyfriend, or to complain about her boyfriend, or to say she broke up with her boyfriend and wishes more guys where like me, or to say how glad she is to have me as a friend because I helped her through her breakup until she got a new boyfriend, or to tell me where she is on her menstrual cycle. Primarily the second, second-to-last, and last ones though; especially the last one. (no idea why they all keep telling me about it)
Manuel Garcia Jr
Manuel Garcia Jr 2 oy oldin
Been approached by 4 gay men and 2 woman. Don't dig the 2:1 ratio but it's something.
Locan 2 oy oldin
Hey Casually Explained, would you like to get a coffee with me? -there you go. now you got asked out by at least one gay guy :)
Shanahan Gaming
Shanahan Gaming 2 oy oldin
But what if I'm really attractive, famous AND have a puppy... I mean... I'm not... But what if...
RemiF 2 oy oldin
This is going to give me the balls to ask out my crush Tuesday. Thanks.
WasabiKitKat 2 oy oldin
I’m a girl and want to be an engineer... don’t know if engineering school sounds great or horrible, because I also have extremely bad social anxiety.
Billy Kid
Billy Kid 2 oy oldin
Sad times
hunnimoonlight 2 oy oldin
im a girl and honestly i relate to this to what the fuck
bmarshy2303 2 oy oldin
It’s worrying that everything he says is true
frank Frank
frank Frank 2 oy oldin
I quit drinking a year ago so I'm basically fucked.
Hayten l
Hayten l 2 oy oldin
I can hear the dread and sadness coming from his voice and from the video itself. because I have the same feelings.
Jonny Franklin
Jonny Franklin 2 oy oldin
Omg you are amazing
Manimations 2 oy oldin
I don’t understand how it’s so difficult to break the ice when the other person is so hot. Like seriously, the ice they’re inside should’ve melted by now.
Samer Samara
Samer Samara 3 oy oldin
i wish there was a casually explained but from a woman’s point of view so we could actually benefit from knowing how they think but hey at least this is relatable..
Marie C
Marie C 3 oy oldin
Sometimes I text this guy that I like. He told me he appreciates me for talking to him at all. Most guys don't text at all. Now I'm just going to keep approaching him until I die.
Logan F.
Logan F. 3 oy oldin
Or just get Tinder lol
Pi Napple Guy
Pi Napple Guy 3 oy oldin
Ok, quick question, what WOULD a not weird person say? Just out of curiosity
Hero of Kush
Hero of Kush 3 oy oldin
Walked up to a girl said hi I’m James. want to hang out? we did was going good, until I told her my real name
RoseColoredIris 3 oy oldin
3:10 I feel personally attacked.
C1utch R6
C1utch R6 3 oy oldin
3:03 “your mom” 😂😂😂
Tony Thomas
Tony Thomas 3 oy oldin
My love life summed up to a phrase is "beggars can be choosers." I went 0 for 2. To be fair, the first one was long distance, but the other one was a bet based off of real feelings.
Vesten ziRnis
Vesten ziRnis 3 oy oldin
Honest and good advice on the internet? WTF!? I didn't even hear a single "One simple trick the experts don't want you to know!"!
Tommuli Haudankaivaja
umm am i too weird cuz i have been rejected 20 times in 3 years(life is sad)
Richard Cheshire
Richard Cheshire 3 oy oldin
3:24 describes exactly how I met my girlfriend 😂
MageBurger 3 oy oldin
Casually Explained: "Why would I even write that?" Me: "Why did I even think that?"
Akemi M.
Akemi M. 4 oy oldin
I'm in love with how your brain works
alex from the 6
alex from the 6 4 oy oldin
3:06 to 3:16 is facts
【Hirotara】 4 oy oldin
This youtube channel is basically my spirit animal in general
Leo OD
Leo OD 4 oy oldin
thank you for sharing my natalie dormer obsession, but bear in mind i might have to kill you a little further down the line.
Dane Dumas
Dane Dumas 4 oy oldin
Beautiful ending
Aly Homewood
Aly Homewood 4 oy oldin
Waait hold on. Is he bi or some kinda queer? Cus I just... It's... I dunno. I know it doesn't rly matter but I'm just interested and find it funny that apparently everyone of the ytbers I watch just casually turns out to be lgbtq+... Well prbly not everyone... But yeah. Like... It's prbly not sth I need to know but... I WANNA AND THANKS :) (yeah. I'm rambling...)
FlightForOne 4 oy oldin
My ice breaker is usually stuttering something about anime followed by a self deprecating dig... so far I’ve found neither one to be the correct response to “Welcome to Taco Bell, what can I get you?” But if you still want to get on the gay guy scoreboard... 👋🏼 Hi... Soul Eater is the best anime.... and my Video Game Addiction is real..... lol... 😎🌈😶
FlappyCat2000 4 oy oldin
I had a legit like 6 month plan to get with this girl and I came across as weird and stalkery at first but eventually it actually worked but then she moved
I'm David Hasselhoff
Me but unironically
Alixznder 4 oy oldin
I got asked out once, she was underage. This is why we ask, not women
Arcaryon Xavier
Arcaryon Xavier 4 oy oldin
If you meet someone at a party, ask if they are with someone. Act accordingly 😂 because from time to time they have bbbs ... Big beefy brothers. Who are not friendly.
IskandarEasyToFindThisAccount Dhiaurrahman
I only just now noticed the "Your mom'' joke
Mr Void
Mr Void 4 oy oldin
That part with the aneurism is the best thing I’ve ever seen.
John A
John A 4 oy oldin
Awww MAN, I'm the 95% :(
Soul Legend
Soul Legend 4 oy oldin
Filip Bečák
Filip Bečák 4 oy oldin
my favorite mild sperg channel
Ashwini Raj Pandey
Dude you're hysterical, should do standups.
Kroy Wen
Kroy Wen 4 oy oldin
are you single? I taste like Pringles
Alperen Elbasan
Alperen Elbasan 4 oy oldin
3:03 Your mom
Chicco Divers
Chicco Divers 4 oy oldin
>be me >say hi >she says hi back >ask her about music >we talk about that for a while >she likes a semi obscure band that I also like >formulate response in my head >freeze >walk away without saying anything Please help
Ethan Peterson
Ethan Peterson 4 oy oldin
yo nigga what if she licks my face
Thomas Towler
Thomas Towler 4 oy oldin
Casually explained is beta as fuck
MAN_ON_WHEELZ 4 oy oldin
2:43 - 3:03 This line right here, I swear to God I wish I could simplify this and wear it on a shirt. I don't always notice girls that I would be interested in. Though I have been approached once or twice in my 29 years and it's been by girls I am 100% uninterested in. I've had pretty girlfriends, so it's not like I can't attract girls that are my type, why don't they ever say something?
Luke Newcomb
Luke Newcomb 4 oy oldin
I always ask myself: Would an idiot do that?
Kyle D.
Kyle D. 4 oy oldin
Love the videos 😁 good job man
Anthony Malquezadec
When I initiate a conversation fear, shock, and nervousness spread across peoples faces. Is this normal...
Wei Zhao
Wei Zhao 29 kun oldin
yes that's your ability to share with people how you feel
So who is the woman that he keeps showing on these videos? Look at her she appears about 0:55 minutes into the video. I believe it is a celebrity, but what's his beef?
SomethingIronic 4 oy oldin
Thumbnail is so great haha
Beans 4 oy oldin
I'm not gay but those jew curls gave me a 9 hour erection and counting
Dr. Jingles7
Dr. Jingles7 4 oy oldin
The hard part is it actually works and you become a boyfriend then your like "shit what do I do now I didn't think I'd get this far
Wei Zhao
Wei Zhao 29 kun oldin
the point is that you enjoy your life notice how you stop speaking after talking because you live in complete fear of what the other person is gonna say next don't do that figure out why and you'll feel way better it's the same feeling as being afraid of accidentally knocking things over these are clues solve the mystery
Andy Hale
Andy Hale 4 oy oldin
Pretty sure CE just came out as Bi.
GreenPigKing 4 oy oldin
I got asked out by a crazy girl and some gay guys have hit on me but other than that I have always made the first move.
Jenny Lane
Jenny Lane 4 oy oldin
JAMES HEY JAMES. JAMES. JAAAMMES I know you're legit UZvid famous and are probably already holding like.. so many.. literally tens of other girls' hands even at this moment but um Mines is softer I don't lift. so. silky smoove. um. ...so I hit subscribe. ..bet you couldn't even feel it. literally TENS
Marlin Mcknight
Marlin Mcknight 4 oy oldin
Anybody else see him scoring "Your mom" at 3:01
FC videos
FC videos 4 oy oldin
Glad i have a puppy
Nachiten Remix
Nachiten Remix 4 oy oldin
Merilanda 4 oy oldin
...just sit tight and wait for the alcohol you give you a personality. 🤣😂💀
Aidan Truax
Aidan Truax 5 oy oldin
My trick is to be bisexual. That doubles the amount of people I can awkwardly flop around in a conversation with... I'm lonely.
Wei Zhao
Wei Zhao 29 kun oldin
that's so fucking philosophical i love you flop w me
JMONK 279 5 oy oldin
Did anybody else see Chris Pratt on the list?
Abbie_on_drums 17
2:49 I DID IT TWICE AND IT WORKED BOTH TIMES... I'm with the second guy
nETbKaH 5 oy oldin
You just casually explained my whole love life. If you can explain something nonexistant.