I Asked My Mom 11 Intimate Questions Before It's Too Late

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Kane from BuzzFeed try to ask his Chinese & Vietnamese mom intimate questions about love, how to be happy, and sacrifices of parenthood. This emotional interview might make you cry as she shares her wisdom, positive thinking, and real life story of immigration.
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Kelly Duong
Devy Setiady



7-Iyl, 2018

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Billie Edwards
Billie Edwards 55 daqiqa oldin
A mother's love, she is so precious and your family have so much to be grateful for. Seems like she instilled good values in you all. Was very brave for you to share....
longhairfen 59 daqiqa oldin
Your mom is wonderful. You should be proud of her and make her happy. This video makes me miss my mom in heaven more. Thanks for this!
Rachel Pitt
Rachel Pitt 14 soat oldin
A great message for all. 💞
angel amin
angel amin 3 kun oldin
omg she is so cute! I got inspired to make schedules more often, but I always go outside!!
Mike Wang
Mike Wang 3 kun oldin
Why Kane’s mom is speaking Cantonese since she grew up in Vietnam?
Robert Smeagles
Robert Smeagles 3 kun oldin
Tons of respect to your mother & father and to you for taking the time to do this worthwhile interview. Great work.
when I think about the lord
As a child of an immigrant, this broke my heart. Reminded me to keep moving forward and let my family know how I feel about them while they’re still here
Abhija Kala
Abhija Kala 3 kun oldin
You are a great human being. So is your mom. Your dad too... Can you give them my love n regards? 😊 From india
Anam Mansuri
Anam Mansuri 3 kun oldin
don't worry guys i am the one cutting onions here 🤧💜
min yooing
min yooing 3 kun oldin
OMGMGHJWJSJDBWUDN i love your mom she so funny fhjwamkrhdbduwm 😂😂😂😂
J V 4 kun oldin
off-topic, but i absolutely love her accent!
Liz Henson
Liz Henson 4 kun oldin
Kane's mom needs her own series on happiness and gardening, she is so positive and her plants are beautiful!
Bevi B
Bevi B 4 kun oldin
All the time in the world to listen to this mom, i hope you have some beautiful adventures! I must compose some questions for my mum she too is a selfless beautiful soul
Bevi B
Bevi B 4 kun oldin
❤she's adorable and what a precious way to make memories and get to know her more than ever before. So precious 👌
Juan Rodriguez
Juan Rodriguez 4 kun oldin
I’m a much better human being after watching this. Thank you so much for this.
alaya 4 kun oldin
You have great parents, they are greatful and I can see you have a loving family.
박명선 5 kun oldin
Thanks for the video~everything that your mum said was amazing!!! Hope you and your family happy all the time.
XxNue 5 kun oldin
This really helps me to "wake up" I've been negative for too long. All the hurt I've endured, ever caused. I need to forgive myself, and be happy like your mom! Such a beautiful woman, inside and out. She never once blamed her kids. I love it 💖
Boheme Dream
Boheme Dream 5 kun oldin
1. I’m crying 2. People shifting in and out of their different languages is so special and beautiful 3. For your mom’s sake, please teach her what “make love” means 😂
Nina Irene
Nina Irene 6 kun oldin
She deserves the entire world...
Jon Jacob Smith
Jon Jacob Smith 6 kun oldin
Awe. This made me cry. I LOVE these kind of videos.
chrisiel79 6 kun oldin
You guys are speaking Cantonese. I didn’t know that was common for Vietnamese
sunnydiverhkg 6 kun oldin
Thank you for sharing...ur mom is amazing!!
SF 6 kun oldin
Nicole Bonetti
Nicole Bonetti 6 kun oldin
"Everything around us have the happy" to see the world through her eyes is goals! such an inspiring lady
Nicole Bonetti
Nicole Bonetti 6 kun oldin
omg! such a beautiful human! I love her
Chelsea Resh
Chelsea Resh 7 kun oldin
OMG sooo much feels!
chloe mankumbani
chloe mankumbani 7 kun oldin
I actually cried.. And as a foster child this motives me to speak with my actually parents... Thanks Kane!!❤❤ ..i actually just love your mum like for real😂😂❤
Koy Cookie
Koy Cookie 7 kun oldin
Patricia Ferrara
Patricia Ferrara 8 kun oldin
This is so amazing..she is amazing 😉 ❤️
Courtnee Linton
Courtnee Linton 9 kun oldin
She’s so cute 😭
D Shak
D Shak 9 kun oldin
Beautiful video....
Marize Nunes
Marize Nunes 10 kun oldin
I wouldn't have a conversation like this one with my mom, maybe with my gradma, but i don't think my mom would be open enough about things... but that was so nice to waaaaaaatch! I loved it! Your mom is really cute by the way ^^
thebaejazelle 11 kun oldin
I love Kane's smile so much
Rachel MacDonald
Rachel MacDonald 11 kun oldin
she's not that old. She could do real estate!
ew no
ew no 12 kun oldin
"your daddy said "love me" and i fell in love with your daddy." so... can someone love me?
Kaylun Edwards
Kaylun Edwards 13 kun oldin
this made me cry 😩😩
Jenn Durham
Jenn Durham 13 kun oldin
Such a sweet lady! I love her advice and wisdom. :)
roland 13 kun oldin
that's really sweet :)
bonzodamonkey 13 kun oldin
Powerful... humble... true ..
jessica chong
jessica chong 13 kun oldin
Your mom has the most positive energy ever!!! ❤️❤️❤️
TysonIsKetchy 13 kun oldin
"10:10" "everything around us have the happy" ...and i sit here and get overwhelmed by the smallest things
Hope N
Hope N 14 kun oldin
Made me cry, got great advice, and fell in love with your mommy.
Island Princess
Island Princess 14 kun oldin
Live in the moment
Island Princess
Island Princess 14 kun oldin
She is beautiful and so adorbs. Love how she keeps saying, "Make love together." lol. :)
wikct2 14 kun oldin
I love your mom. She has a very positive view for life and she provides that positive energy to others in the family as well. Thanks for sharing this touching and meaningful vlog.
Don't waste time do a schedule 👍
Catherine Callahan
Catherine Callahan 14 kun oldin
Wow. Who needs fake movies when you can watch real things like this?
James Aguilar
James Aguilar 14 kun oldin
I was so emotional during this video you have an amazing mother and I know you know that, if you want to make a go fund me account I'd love to help make it easier to get a trip ready for your mother.
Selma Jamal Aldin
Selma Jamal Aldin 14 kun oldin
Your mom is so inspiring! Thank you for sharing
Diana García
Diana García 14 kun oldin
This is the best buzzfeed video. Thanks.
Tayler Barber
Tayler Barber 14 kun oldin
I love them!
Spooky Temporium
Spooky Temporium 15 kun oldin
Every asian parent: *When i was your age I had to walk 10 miles to school*
Jessica Cooley
Jessica Cooley 15 kun oldin
This video legit made me cry! it was so beautiful
kura kaufusi
kura kaufusi 15 kun oldin
ahahahahahaha awesome mum u have there
Isabella SwissRoll
Isabella SwissRoll 15 kun oldin
Gosh would you believe there was something in my eye this whole video😭.....you need to take your parents on a trip...they need to travel😭
Kat Brax
Kat Brax 15 kun oldin
Your mom makes me think of my late Mother and Grandmothers. She's beautiful, strong and delicate like the flowers she grows in her garden.
Beo the Orc Queen
Beo the Orc Queen 15 kun oldin
I love this lady so much, please make sure she is happy, calm and she travelled.
Kat Brax
Kat Brax 15 kun oldin
Oh I love your parents. God Bless your entire family.
BRIGHTER DAYZ 15 kun oldin
Please tell me you took this wonderful beautiful soul on a vacation ❤️
_phg_ anh_
_phg_ anh_ 15 kun oldin
Your mum is vietnamese? Right? Why she speak like chinese
Beo the Orc Queen
Beo the Orc Queen 15 kun oldin
She is Chinese, she lived in Vietnam.
Jasmine Pambukyan
Jasmine Pambukyan 15 kun oldin
Kane! This video made me cry, slime, laugh and feel sad because its soo similar to my parents situation. Thank you for this video it was just really sweet to watch and feel all this emotions
RoxxadaYT - Gacha and ROBLOX
My dad was born in Vietnam, but he's Chinese. I don't think he's went to China either.
Jane Patti
Jane Patti 16 kun oldin
SugarBabyT 16 kun oldin
OMG she is so sweet i hope that you're able to save enough money to take the whole family! Maybe as a Chinese new years gift?
Kia Smith
Kia Smith 16 kun oldin
I lost my mom in 2011 and by watching this it made me wonder if o actually knew enough about my her. Same feeling with my father who i lost in 2002. I am very emotional right now but thank you for respecting your parents and appreciating their hardships. May god bless all of you
Cait Paul
Cait Paul 16 kun oldin
My mom is a single mother and when my dad left he took everything but because my mom was so amazing she always made me feel like nothing was wrong and I never felt like I had a sad childhood. It's amazing how strong mothers are!
snakeufaceu 16 kun oldin
Kane’s mom is the definition of unconditional love
snakeufaceu 16 kun oldin
“Jungkook is whipped” yep the world will deco know it now 😂
Spencer Calvert
Spencer Calvert 16 kun oldin
Bigmama on sons you tube: A great time for all our citizens to watch how much our immigrants appreciate and give to make our country what it is. So many that are part of the so called “caravan “ come with little more than hope. it takes a special kind of person and we learn so much from them when we reach out rather then hold onto unfounded fears.
Have You Seen Chef?
Have You Seen Chef? 16 kun oldin
I’m surprised how enlightening listening to her has been.
Zeina Jammal
Zeina Jammal 16 kun oldin
This was...😪 my heart🙌🙈
Nicole Peace&love
Nicole Peace&love 17 kun oldin
She’s a beautiful woman
Colitra McCray
Colitra McCray 17 kun oldin
This video is a true eye opener. Goodness I am crying. Shows me that I shouldnt complain so much and be thankful for what I have goodness. Love you mom GREAT VIDEO
Mrs De Silva
Mrs De Silva 17 kun oldin
She is so wise and gentle. I'm crying just because she made me happy and reminded me to look forward and seek the happy moments in everyday life. Thanks for sharing your Mum with us! xoxo
Sara Hirsoveanu
Sara Hirsoveanu 17 kun oldin
on the first question,Kane almost died! lol
Slewenski 17 kun oldin
She may have lead a hard and poor life with little education but she sure seems to carry more wisdom and happyiness in herself than most people I've ever met...sure makes you think.
Nomad 1709
Nomad 1709 17 kun oldin
I adore the parents. They made a lot of sacrifices for their kids but did not get bitter or expect their kids to 'repay' them when they're older. I hope the kids will raise their children similar to this
Ohmy gosh
Ohmy gosh 18 kun oldin
Mr. Trump look at the people that make America great. This woman is a gem and an excellent role model. Not all immigrants have bad intentions some come a work hard and scrape by just so their children can make something of themselves. They're not trying to steal jobs they're struggling to survive but STILL immensely grateful.
Koi De Masi
Koi De Masi 18 kun oldin
lolita cholita
lolita cholita 18 kun oldin
aww so sweet
Maritza Cintron
Maritza Cintron 19 kun oldin
Love her! So wise!
Lauren Sandman
Lauren Sandman 19 kun oldin
she is so sweet and so enlightened. I admire her!
Tahani Warraiat
Tahani Warraiat 19 kun oldin
This video will brighten anyone’s day!
Louis Tuấn Lê
Louis Tuấn Lê 19 kun oldin
The movie is very simple but leaves a lot of emotions. Life is simple and beautiful, no one can be so poor that they do not give each other a smile. Thank you for the life of a morning wake up still have a new day to love. Have beautiful day to you
rafi rajendra
rafi rajendra 19 kun oldin
Not tryna be rude kane but your mom sounds lowkey like buklau 😂, you guys are cute tho. I wish my mom wasnt always busy with her job, i am 19
John Connor
John Connor 19 kun oldin
Beautiful Family!
claire higgins
claire higgins 19 kun oldin
Will you go with your mum to China?
ArmouredUnicorn 19 kun oldin
Take her to china and film it for us
Carina Francis
Carina Francis 19 kun oldin
I just want to say how inspiring your mum is! I’m now sitting here crying at how wonderfully she views the world and how much I’d like to be half that positive for my two baby girls
Carina Francis
Carina Francis 19 kun oldin
I just want to say how inspiring your mum is! I’m now sitting here crying at how wonderfully she views the world and how much I’d like to be half that positive for my two baby girls
ereed28 19 kun oldin
Mom has me crying over here. That's a strong woman. ❤️
mrsazbill 20 kun oldin
She's the most selfless mother I've ever seen.
annnan 20 kun oldin
Achieving the utmost level of content. That's the real key to happiness. Kane's beautiful mother is a shining example of that. I hope her happiness increases with each passing day.
Natalie Gagnon
Natalie Gagnon 21 kun oldin
Kane, you are going to make a young lady a very good husband. Keep sharing the wisdom of your elders.
Denise Dee
Denise Dee 12 kun oldin
He's gay.
Joy Kang
Joy Kang 21 kun oldin
I started out the video laughing at how cute the mom is but by the end I had tears in my eyes
Elle Shiz
Elle Shiz 21 kun oldin
*Beansie* 21 kun oldin
Oh my goodness your mothers dragon fruit tree is GORGEOUS!! Would love to have a cutting of that bad boy!
Jorge Sanchez
Jorge Sanchez 22 kun oldin
I'm calling my Mom right now because of this video
Stephanie Monique
Stephanie Monique 22 kun oldin
Nope. That’s not a tear. I just have really bad allergies. 😩😭