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Is gender just a costume?
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28-Apr, 2018

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Kara McLain
Kara McLain Kun oldin
I find it really funny that they mention not shaving their mustache. even when I go femme I never share my mustache
elijahp
elijahp 3 kun oldin
I hate how someone like this puts themselves in the same category as transgender people...I’m a transgender man, I would not be caught dead exposing my ‘breasts’, wearing lipstick, dresses, etc...the dysphoria would be insane...yet this person can do it freely, and feel pretty...yeah we’re not the same.
Amber Is A Fangirl
Amber Is A Fangirl 3 kun oldin
I'm just mad that they're better looking than me both ways XD
Jackie Marsh
Jackie Marsh 8 kun oldin
"What kind of partner do you think I would have?" "I would guess a guy or a girl" oh realllyyyyy
Heidy Iglesias
Heidy Iglesias 10 kun oldin
This really reminded me (or exposed) how I feel as a woman everyday. When you did the Fem look; The uncomfortable-ness and staring and feeling super vulnerable and what you said about not all of us being able to do that everyday. Anyway, great video!
Sarah Johnson
Sarah Johnson 18 kun oldin
i love her voice
Niccole Hoody
Niccole Hoody 22 kun oldin
Foot hair , who have foot hair I don't 😲
PrisPrisca15
PrisPrisca15 26 kun oldin
People assuming that she is a lesbian just because she is dressed masculine... Well, I look like her masculine self and my partner is a cis man. People like labeling way too much.
Rachel Kaiser
Rachel Kaiser 27 kun oldin
Although I don’t wear makeup, or do my hair, I still feel I present very feminine. One issue I have is feeling like I’m a child because I’m not treated as a grown woman even though I’m 29. People assume I put less effort into my appearance, but I put an extreme amount of effort into my skin care and clothing. I’m definitely not taken as seriously, and often feel I need to over compensate in other areas to feel like a woman.
emm jay
emm jay 27 kun oldin
How come we can't just wear clothes? Why does it have to be about GENDER and WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK?🚮
Nancy Norman
Nancy Norman 28 kun oldin
You know since I could pick my own clothes~they were boys more tomboy clothes~never have outgrown that~one job required girls clothes which was hard~i get mistaken for male every day~my face isn't boyish just my stature is~when I speak they know I'm a grl~but not speaking they think male~i choose my way of life~everyone else chooses to be assholes~im happy with me😁
Thank God For Natural Hair!
I can relate...my ex calls me a shapeshifter.
Mary Ellen Rides
Mary Ellen Rides 29 kun oldin
You're "You".....males can dress like females and vice versa. Gender is a costume because I dress both ways. Yes, I'm female but I feel most comfortable with no makeup, hairy legs, jeans and a t-shirt! My hair is short if I slick back the sides and a bob when the sides are pulled forward. I'm married, hubby is in the Military and I have two grown men. I've been told I look like a boy and I'm like, "Thanks". On the flip, I enjoy the makeup, dresses, low plunging neck line and heels, hair slicked back or in a bob and I've been complimented on my look....it's what I'm in the mood/state of mind at the time. You do You! Peace.
mm 9
mm 9 Oy oldin
That haircut/style is beautiful on you.
Broito
Broito Oy oldin
Man her voice is so feminine when paired with the Masc, it's surprising! In totally a good way, I notice subconsciously my voice will lower a lot when I'm hanging with the guys or going more Masc. Hearing my voice is an obvious ping on the gaydar.
Federica Coren
5:17 taylor schilling! xD
Charlot Mae Nitti-Lowrance
Girl you look amazing both ways.
S.K.
S.K. Oy oldin
Love it! Such a good lesson and makes me want try dressing different than how I usually do
Cookie
Cookie Oy oldin
Feminine side looks like an older Jenny
Cathal Reilly
Cathal Reilly Oy oldin
I am a little sissy girl bisexual
Cathal Reilly
Cathal Reilly Oy oldin
😇👭👬💗💚💘💛💝💜💞💓👅💟💕💖💙❤💋👄🐩🐶🐕🍼🍼🌸🌸🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈
Cathal Reilly
Cathal Reilly Oy oldin
I am a little sissy girl.
Cathal Reilly
Cathal Reilly Oy oldin
Cathal love 2 miss cathal love 2 girls.
Cathal Reilly
Cathal Reilly Oy oldin
Natural briths equilty un
Laura Braga
Laura Braga Oy oldin
Suttle Drag.
Emilee Garza
Emilee Garza Oy oldin
You are beautiful no matter what gender pronoun you choose! ❤️
milky way
milky way Oy oldin
No matter how you dress your hair is gorgeous😍😳
Diego Meneses
Diego Meneses Oy oldin
you look pretty as fem, but just pretty as masc, besides being gorgeous, you also look like boss, you have personality and if I saw you walking down the street in masculine clothes I would like to be friends with you more than if I saw you in feminine clothes
Alice Boballis
We should play with gender more! Thanks for sharing this genuine insight into gender fluidity!
Araz Basmajian
What she said at the end was absolutely amazing ♥️
Tatyana Nyvold
LIVING for jazz's background on her computer😍😍😍
Katherine Kelly
Clothes and makeup form a second skin that is often more powerful than the one we are born with. IMO This is particularly true for a woman.
The Helpful Assistant
Winnipeg Jets Fan @7:10 if you see this are you from Wpg? I am!!!
Matthew Lightwood
I'm genderfluid, and my brothers have been really mean to me after I started playing with gender presentation. They keep saying that I'm gross for using the women's restroom even though I've been using it my whole life, and saying that I can't wear the things I want to wear or call myself what I want to be called. I'm going to avoid them as much as I can.
Millie Dragon
Millie Dragon Oy oldin
I like them in masculine clothes but I like them in femme make up. But there is more neutral to masculine make up to has an option.
Nur Lodhi
Nur Lodhi Oy oldin
Every form of clothing should be able to be masculine or feminine or neutral. It's just what look we perceive to be a certain gender in this culture that influences the way we try to dress. Whatever way, they look really good.
MadBadger
MadBadger Oy oldin
Jazzmynes background tho
Corelidi Kiplinge
You do look great both ways but I didn't expect you to rock the femme so well after u looked so natural masculine! U looked gorgeous!
Ina J
Ina J Oy oldin
When I wear more masculine or feel more masculine I tend to take on "the man role". Like when my sister and I were out grocery shopping. I took the bags because I felt like that was the right thing to do. Fun story, I got scolded by a guy for arguing with my friend because he thought I was a boy fighting with a girl...
Gio G
Gio G Oy oldin
Wow, relatable
Blue Fire
Blue Fire Oy oldin
Can u do a video where women wear men's clothing for a week and let them feel the comfort and power and not being vulnerable like I mean proper men's clothing not women's clothing that looks masculine like proper men's clothing from the men's section I'm a girl that's tomboy and I love wearing men's cloths
Ss Sd
Ss Sd Oy oldin
their hair gives me life
Dny Carrera
Dny Carrera 2 oy oldin
To be fair. I don't think is because of the gender. You came in with a fun fresh orange with little figures outfit, with designs and then you came in all black, red and golden (earrings). Color and textures play a big part of how people described you. I'm sure is not all because of the gender and the dress/pants. I feel like you didn't even think about those factors.
Jennifer Guerra
Jennifer Guerra 2 oy oldin
Its crazy how you can see how the struggle of just BEING A WOMAN AT A BAR took a toll on their spirit. ITS CRAZY.
Barbara Danley
Barbara Danley 2 oy oldin
Interesting. There is no way I can do masculine, though-44F.
This Time
This Time 2 oy oldin
This person should wear a wig for the femme look. From personal experience, a femme/masc haircut has been the biggest difference in how people have treated me.
Ava Marie
Ava Marie 2 oy oldin
ive been watching for one minute and i already LOVE you! your hair, your peircings your everything you are so good looking!
clockworkhex fdsafds
there are only 2 genders
Claire Lawson
Claire Lawson 2 oy oldin
you looked like you had a lot of fun,,,,, I kinda want to try this now lol
Aleksi Joensuu
Aleksi Joensuu 2 oy oldin
"Playing with gender is fun and we should all do it" - didn't seem like you had that much fun when you were femme... Just how much easier it was for you to be left in peace when dressed masculine was indicative of the privilege we who normaly dress masculinely have.
Dez Lew
Dez Lew 2 oy oldin
I get this. I could never dress so extremely feminine, I would feel so uncomfortable and unconfident that I would just want to go home.
Maggie the Newton
When you said about not being able to hold your space in the bar... I understand that toooooo well!! Much love!! Xxx
augustynka 1
augustynka 1 2 oy oldin
You so rocked these looks! And you were so amazing! The speech got me.
MewWolf5
MewWolf5 2 oy oldin
Interesting that people thought you were artistic on both the "masc" and the "femme" days. That kind of impression might not be very gendered, or it could just be because you have a cool haircut!
Salma VM
Salma VM 2 oy oldin
I feel like I would dress masculine with no makeup but keep feminine hair
soccerxrules45
soccerxrules45 2 oy oldin
this video is amazing- and hair goals af
Alma Saon
Alma Saon 2 oy oldin
This reminds me so much of an experiment my one of my campus's sociology classes does every year. Every year, people taking the class are encouraged to "flip" for a day and wear something of a different gender, then walk around and gauge results. As an observer, it's absolutely amazing to see someone with a masculine body strut around in an absolutely boss outfit and flawless makeup, or people with feminine bodies rocking some amazing suits. As a student, I've heard the professor is incredibly respectful about this and doesn't force NB students to partake if they don't feel comfortable.
sunnymas
sunnymas 2 oy oldin
gender is NOT just a costume. It is not so easy. You cannut put a gender role on, like its gender clothes. Or you are a trained actor, and play a gender role only. The gender look -> its gender role. You must fullfill this gender role. If you cannot, it looks like a fake or a joke. If you look more masculine, you cannot be a shy, cute, female woman. I saw a woman in a real police uniform, handgun, handcuffs etc., but walking like John Wayne. She is a true police woman, doing her job. But it looks too masculine.
sunnymas
sunnymas 2 oy oldin
Very interested. The gender look allows its gender role. Or what gender role the people expect it from. So you think, a female gender -> female role reduce the woman, for what she is allowed to be and to do ? Or more masculinity allows more = wider gender role ? Whereever more masculinity or more feminity. A woman can be more tough, as people expect from her.
Dead Prince Cosplay
The guy with his girlfriend tried so hard not to stare C.Ts boobs and it’s funny
Daniel Lim
Daniel Lim 2 oy oldin
In my opinion, today's generation just think a little too much; they over-complicate simple things like just appreciating feminine beauty. The moment someone finds you attractive in feminine clothes you begin to question the motives and if that person is not respecting your inner beauty and whole bunch of other things. It's the most over-thinking generation in my opinion. When I grew up it was so simple, "oh she looks pretty", "oh he looks cute/hot".
Nyoka
Nyoka 2 oy oldin
5:15 GIRL ON THE LEFT LOOKS LIKE PIPER CHAPMAN FROM ORANGE IS THE NEW BLACK IM SHOOKETH!!!!!
Rahrah B
Rahrah B 2 oy oldin
I felt their discomfort like it was my own. Even though I present super fem, one step into showing clevege or something too far feels suffocating and feels like everyone is perceiving me wrong. I like their idea of having spaces where you can play in your gender expression without feeling the judgement or pressure to be a certain way because of it.
goldfish1871
goldfish1871 2 oy oldin
How has this video not reached over a million views!!!?!?????!!!!!! This is such an amazing video!!!!!!!!!!!!
clockworkhex fdsafds
it's because no one can take this gay channel seriously anymore
tourette hero
tourette hero 2 oy oldin
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Haegtessa Mandragora
Normalize they/them being accessible even if you look "femme". I'm a nonbinary person who is constantly seen as feminine despite what I do to physical appearance and it won't work basing assumptions off the binary norms of femme and masc. Don't assume Christine Today would have she/hr pronouns.
B. Colwell
B. Colwell 2 oy oldin
how sad they had to work twice as hard and pour hours into the performance that got them disrespected and harassed. That being said, forgive me, but cry me a river and ship some of those first world problems downstream where some poor people of color could use a laugh. Not to hate on the person's lived experience really but I think this one can cone wrapped in a big gratitude bow, for so so many reasons. Gorgeous gf. Cool af ppl. Actual job: being the center of a lot of surprisingly positive attn. IJS present femm (esp that much cleavage) and walk down the street in India. Just for a lil perspective. Great topic. Goes to show, the trans struggle is real. Cuz no man is rushing to take a huge step down in the world, even in the best feminist enlightened scenerio. I could prolly present male fairly naturally and convincingly but I love being a woman. maybe I'm brainwashed idk. But much respect for bravery here, with a small caveat. I know I am extremely thankfyl, why are YOU? :)
suicide savii
suicide savii 2 oy oldin
This made me so happy.
JustaHumanLivinLife
Both of the outfits look great and as long as you feel good in it that's all that should matter. I kinda wanna try coming to school in the boys uniform of my school and see how it would be to dress like that but unfortunately I go to a conservative Catholic school so it probably wouldn't go down well.
Colleen Kenny
Colleen Kenny 2 oy oldin
Yup, I’ve still got the Big Gay
Lil Lunatic
Lil Lunatic 2 oy oldin
How about not thinking about presenting yourself as feminine or masculine, and just wear whatever you like?
Skye Heere
Skye Heere 2 oy oldin
They. Are. Amazing.
your fave bih ASHTON
i swear you can wear a giant sign that says HEY YALL I USE HE/HIM(or they them) AND I AM MALE(or gender queer) and people will still be out here like oh hey 100% female we love girls wow my favoriyte woman. being they/them was basically like being she/her and honestly so does being male and thats just the life when ur born wirth a vagina and fem face. i mean i have a mullet i bind i try to dress masc,, also i have a mullet did i mention thatn like come on i dont even wear makeup and i love makeup and i have eyebags that u can see from 8 feet away
more_than_a_person
as someone who's genderfluid this video is offensive. Im done with buzzfeed right now. Unsubscribed. Stop pretending to know what we go through. This video is a slap in the face.
glittabones
glittabones 3 oy oldin
Imagine being able to pull off both looks... they're so lucky!
JustSweetNothing0
This person is so beautiful and lots of respect for going out and doing this. It must have been so difficult but I support the message. Gender whether woman, man, both, or neither we should all feel comfortable to express ourselves however we want safely and for people to respect regardless of anything else.
Lorraine K
Lorraine K 3 oy oldin
You sound like Ellen Page, pardon the stereotype!
Be1smaht
Be1smaht 3 oy oldin
Gosh your fashion is on point
Be1smaht
Be1smaht 3 oy oldin
I love her feminine look. It was gooooooooooooooorgeous. Shes very open minded
Be1smaht
Be1smaht 3 oy oldin
I love this lady and her outlook on the world. I also think her intellect is super high.
Jill Stephensøn
Jill Stephensøn 3 oy oldin
7:15 I don't like this guy for some reason
T Harvee
T Harvee 3 oy oldin
what are masculine movements
Sir Doctor of Tardis
I might try that double sports bra trick, that's a good idea.
Sir Doctor of Tardis
Gender really is performative, isn't it.
Rin
Rin 3 oy oldin
The masculine look is what I want to look like. In love ❤️ my girlfriend loves it when I dress that way.
Saint Ivory
Saint Ivory 3 oy oldin
She reminded me of pink
YOitsNat
YOitsNat 3 oy oldin
Please don't forget that theres nothing wrong with men looking at you. straight women look at men all the time. if they say they arent, they are lying.
Olivia Lee
Olivia Lee 3 oy oldin
You are such an inspiration
Ryan White
Ryan White 3 oy oldin
"what is your pronoun?" most stupid question of modern time. You can be masculine as a woman, but you will always be a she wether you like it or not. Like white people can tan as much as they want, they'll never be mediterranean, like how dare you calling me white? Don't you see how much effort I put in being tanned?
Fall Husky03
Fall Husky03 3 oy oldin
5:46 Lesbians😂
Valeria Perez
Valeria Perez 3 oy oldin
you do look like a guy but. not the voice. but you look both ways
Sarah Gawle
Sarah Gawle 3 oy oldin
What *are* their pronouns?
clockworkhex fdsafds
it/that
Comrade Avene
Comrade Avene 3 oy oldin
Gender isn’t real. Feminine doesn’t mean female and masculine doesn’t mean male. Try explaining this bs to my refugee friends. So tired of this white middle class bs.
clockworkhex fdsafds
'gender isn't real' youtube is 13+
niwa s
niwa s 3 oy oldin
Clothes aren't gender. This is a mockery of being trans.
Daisy Ariana Carter
Sometimes I feel like a stud and others I feel really feminine
Angel Macias
Angel Macias 3 oy oldin
I've always thought of you as a beautiful soul. Watching this Im relating to your feelings vulnerability or inability to hold your own space while being feminine. The people are right you're powerful N successful in which ever way you present yourself.
disappearinthinair
What an interesting vidoe! Thank you for this. Gives a good perspective :)
Eve Barajas
Eve Barajas 3 oy oldin
5:50 L E S B I A N S
twophalangesup
twophalangesup 3 oy oldin
This is so relevant. I identify as female but I love to wear jeans and a tshirt most of the time but people don't see it as feminine and it's so frustrating.
Indiegirl007
Indiegirl007 3 oy oldin
She looked so uncomfortable talking to people that second time. Like she just wanted to hurry up and get it over with. Lol.
Keyingisi