I'm A Tomboy, And No One Wants To Date Me

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This is Jo. Actually, her name is Josephine, but you wouldn’t be able to imagine a person less suitable to be called Josephine. She’s a tomboy, and she’s proud of it. However, life as a tomboy is not as amusing as you might imagine. She’s faced a lot of problems, and she wants to tell you about them.
Jo had trouble communicating with other girls right from her early childhood. She remembers one time when a large group of children had gathered in one place for a party or something, and her mom gently pushed her towards the other girls and said, “go play with the dolls, make friends with someone!” She diligently started moving dolls here and there and listening to boring talk about girly problems, but all the while she kept looking at the boys, who were playing something thrilling, laughing and doing their boyish stuff. She was so envious that at some point she just silently stood up and joined them. That was the moment when the fun started for her.
Things didn’t improve as the years went by. Jo was always attracted to the world of boys, and all of her friends were boys as well. She felt at ease when she talked to them, and felt that she understood their problems and their way of thinking better. Whereas when she was around girls, she was totally clueless. Their problems were hard for her to follow, especially when they complained about boys.
Jo had to adapt her looks to her lifestyle as well. When she went out with her friends, they always did something active, like skateboarding or exploring abandoned buildings or climbing trees. For these kinds of things, you need to dress in a practical way. She found out that jeans and hoodies are much more comfortable in this respect than typical girls’ clothes, which she had always hated in any case. And that is how she has dressed her whole life. For Jo, it was always a tragedy when they made some formal visit and she needed to dress “properly”, as people would call it. A cute dress, shiny shoes, a neat hairdo… ugh. As you can probably imagine, phrases like “wear skirts, be more feminine, you’re a girl” were the things she kept hearing time and again, until at one point her parents just gave up.
It wasn’t that Jo felt she was ugly or anything, and that being a tomboy was her way of gaining confidence. She actually thinks she’s quite cute, and when she’s forced to be a girly girl she looks no worse than her peers. For her, being a tomboy is a lifestyle, and she’s happy with that. The problem was that some time ago, she’d noticed that her friends had started dating.
One of the things that people were often mistaken about was the belief that because Jo was a tomboy, she must be gay. But she’s actually attracted to boys, not girls. Ironically, she actually gets a lot of backtalking from girls who say that she’s just trying to get attention from all the boys around her. She’s never taken this seriously, because she’s never had THAT kind of attention from the boys. Which is actually the core of her problem.
Yes, she’s seeking her first romance. She has lots of boys around her. So what’s the problem, you might ask. The problem is that they don’t really see her as a girl! They know she’s a girl, of course, but they don’t want to date her, because who would date a bro? Once, there was a boy she liked, and she thought it would be wise to approach him and ask if he wanted to go out with her. And guess what - he just laughed at her! He wasn’t mean or anything, it was more something like “Sorry bro, I don’t see you as a GIRL”. Seeing the look on her face, he corrected himself: “I mean, THAT kind of a girl”. Oh thanks, now that’s much better!
This was the first time when being a tomboy had a negative effect on her life. She even tried to put on make up and a dress, but felt really weird and the boys just looked at her strange as well. She gave up and lost hope. It seemed like it was a price that she had to pay to keep the comfortable and amusing life of a tomboy. She became a bit melancholic looking at all those happy couples, and felt that something was missing from her life for the first time.
One day she was invited out to go skateboarding, but she wasn’t in the mood so she just sat there, watching her friends and thinking her sad thoughts. One of her oldest friends soon came over to sit with her and asked why she was so sad. She didn’t want to lie, so she explained everything as it really was - that no one wanted to date her because no one considered her a potential girlfriend. “Don’t cry”, he said, “I’ll go on a date with you!” She refused out self-respect. “I don’t need charity”, she said. Suddenly, he became very serious and said that he really wanted to. And so she accepted. Accidentally, she had made the same mistake all her friends had made with her - she hadn’t considered his feelings, because you don’t go on dates with buddies. Well, she was mistaken.
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Betty Thurman 6 kun oldin
Juan Sanchez
Juan Sanchez 6 kun oldin
Te mhgfdsawert hgfdsaqweeeeewe2 Tchité r
Jeido Chan
Jeido Chan Soat oldin
I relate to this so much. I just don’t understand girls and I am a girl. When I dress all nice I feel so exposed and miss my legs hoodie and jeans. I be seeing couples everywhere and I’m just sad and say to myself I don’t need someone right now but is continuously reminded. Most of my friends are guys and I have like 5 friends that are girls and I barley talk to them. The weird part is.. I know when one of my friends like me, they make it so obvious. I just turn them down cause I just don’t see them like that. I’m not lesbian or bi. I just think I don’t want to get hurt again.
Hopeful Me
Hopeful Me 2 soat oldin
I feel your probem. I'm a lesbian and there's basically 2-3 people in my school I can date. 2 of which are dating.
roses ocean
roses ocean 2 soat oldin
i agreee
Luke Skywalker
Luke Skywalker 2 soat oldin
Basically my life
Xx_Lil_Alex_Boi _xX
Xx_Lil_Alex_Boi _xX 3 soat oldin
Koko Holman
Koko Holman 3 soat oldin
God i know exactly what shes talking about!!!
Dinoloverblaze292 Rar girl
I dont like girl clothes i even dressed my roblox avator like a boy i think ( i am happy im a girl but i dont like girly things)
TriTriChan Lol
TriTriChan Lol 3 soat oldin
Denise McNiven Booth
No offence and I can't tell you who you are but...it's sounds more like your transgender.
Rashawn king
Rashawn king 4 soat oldin
I would date you tom boys make great girlfriends
FwuffyBun 4 soat oldin
Yeah and then the only way you get dates is when someone dares them to ask you out
Chloe Hall
Chloe Hall 4 soat oldin
I’m a tomboy. Getting bullied is an everyday thing. I only have guy friends. I get called so many things and i just say whatever or walk away.
Oskar Philipsen
Oskar Philipsen 5 soat oldin
im a boy but some Boys are just not like me and im a child and i hate fortnite and football and you know just most boy things and i have 3 sisters and i really love when im with Them and i have bene collecting some more like stuff like hachimals and beeny boos and littlest PET shop and if i gotta be onest i only have collected 2 diffrent boy things and plus im not playing with boys that Much and i have a pretty High Voice when im singing and not to say that you guys arent good but i actully Think im pretty good Well thats my Teeny tiny story 😊
Pinguimamericano 5 soat oldin
loL wuT
Stinky Cheese000
Stinky Cheese000 5 soat oldin
Why is there a bandage on her face
Angie Ramirez
Angie Ramirez 5 soat oldin
Im kinda a tomboy i don’t like girly things i mostly like boy things
Moe Tube
Moe Tube 5 soat oldin
Watch my video please
Tnee Inez
Tnee Inez 5 soat oldin
Stay strong it's fine the right boy is always there and btw it can relate
S.S.W Nation
S.S.W Nation 5 soat oldin
Boy: *sorry bro I just dont see you as a girl* Me: *What is she? A pole?*
Little Muffin Games
Little Muffin Games 5 soat oldin
Man these tiktok ads
Fresh_Kawaii Potatoe
Gisele Yang
Gisele Yang 6 soat oldin
Thank you for doing this I think video
Prajalrai 6 soat oldin
There are girly boy too, very feminine but if you don't have a stick between your legs then you will be alright.
Kaci Edwards
Kaci Edwards 6 soat oldin
Hi I'm a tomboy and only have one firends but I don't mind
Marcela_Games 7 soat oldin
I rly like your video, and you inspired me. BUT Am I the only feeling better without dating or have any boyfriend? xD
im katrina
im katrina 7 soat oldin
i wear shorts,jeans,shirt and jacket.
MAD CHOCOLATE 8 soat oldin
U don't need a boyfriend im a tom boy too
Dancing Dounuts
Dancing Dounuts 8 soat oldin
But at my school..., Tomboys are the ones EVERYONE Wants to date
Dancing Dounuts
Dancing Dounuts 8 soat oldin
Ayang Maria
Ayang Maria 8 soat oldin
I love play boys thing
Ayang Maria
Ayang Maria 8 soat oldin
And i hate mah skirt
Luna Gacha
Luna Gacha 9 soat oldin
Great story as always! Btw my name is Josaphine
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Pink Purple Panda
Pink Purple Panda 9 soat oldin
I'm definitely not a girly girl but I'm not a big tomboy. I do LOVE wearing hoodies and trackies, but sometimes I want to dress up in a cute little dress and some flats. I love Star Wars, Pirates Of The Caribbean and other stuff like that. I prefer to hang out with boys and I understand both boys and girls.
the hacker
the hacker 9 soat oldin
That's so sad I am a male and dating a tomboy she is gorgeous and I love her vary much
McPooper Scooper
McPooper Scooper 11 soat oldin
I can relate so hard, it hurts my soul.
OPgamerRyan 11 soat oldin
My friend is a tomboy
Blank L
Blank L 12 soat oldin
Use tinder 🤷‍♂️
Dom on fire
Dom on fire 13 soat oldin
Rayhana Awis A Stay
Rayhana Awis A Stay 13 soat oldin
Wait.... So I'm a Tomboy?
Kristiqn Kivulov
Kristiqn Kivulov 13 soat oldin
Do you have penis or vagina ?? WTF ?
Prince Gumball
Prince Gumball 14 soat oldin
I can relate to this
Nofoaiga Sualevai
Nofoaiga Sualevai 14 soat oldin
VIPkittenz 14 soat oldin
I’m tomboy too
Kahlene Dorris
Kahlene Dorris 14 soat oldin
But I do have a boyfriend that last be me for who I am
Kahlene Dorris
Kahlene Dorris 14 soat oldin
Same I'm a Tomboy and I only have one girl best friend and like 100000000 boy Best friend
Vloging with Katie and friends
i'm a Tomboy and i'm hated for it....
Khanh Tran Mai Nguyen (Moon)
Really some body would like me and what if I don’t like them
Kyra Ottey
Kyra Ottey 17 soat oldin
I’m not a girly girl it’s just weird to wear dresses like what the hell
Draw with Catachude
Draw with Catachude 18 soat oldin
PlayingGamer 456
PlayingGamer 456 20 soat oldin
im a tomboy but i dont care what people say to me
Kiwi Tree
Kiwi Tree 20 soat oldin
same... i just look werid with girls clothed
draggon 898
draggon 898 20 soat oldin
Actually is lesbian
Lunix_ChocoPop *
Lunix_ChocoPop * 21 soat oldin
Same..Same.. I act Girlish But I plaued with mostly boys! But when the *GIRLS* saw me laughing with the boys and I can clearly hear them and saying "She's laughing with them? Huh I thought she was more of a gentle call type" And by the way she said it kinda sassy and mean you see I'm more quiet and calm but when the girls talk and joke I didn't get it at all It Wasn't Funny at all they were talking Bts every single time! (No offense Bts Fans) But The Boys Clearly has their clear funny jokes that you van hear it clearly and understand it! I'm a Normal Peep still right? 😅
Laurita JK
Laurita JK 23 soat oldin
This video is to cute i really liked! ❤️
sherm thabsh
sherm thabsh 23 soat oldin
who else is bothered by that bandage? 😂😂😂😂
HNRichard 23 soat oldin
Dangg, good for you to finally have someone you can love and be loved. I also have tomboy friends, they’re really fun to be with, Plus she’s hella cute too. But silly me, always evading my feelings for her because of our friendship. She ended up dating another guy :/ *sigh
Alhamrani Alhamrani
I’m a tomboy too but I don’t get bullied by girls and yeah
Khan Kun oldin
I think tomboys are way better girlfriends much more you can do
Josephine Mitchell
My name is Josephine as well, i go by Josie
Idkgachastuff Kun oldin
When I was buying Christmas clothes and my mom put up a skirt and said “hey! Wear this” I gave her a disgusting look and said “ew.” We laughed and my mom brought me to the boy section XD “since you don’t want to wear girl clothes, wear boy clothes.” I ended up getting a boy hoodie. XD
Toni Toni
Toni Toni Kun oldin
Im a tomboy and ive had some boyfriends and they have all broke up with me bc im not a girly girl
Mehek Niwas
Mehek Niwas Kun oldin
Meowkenna :D
Meowkenna :D Kun oldin
Fellow tomboiz?
Mitzi ‘n’ Figs Channel
Im a girl and i HATE dresses, i hated them since i was a baby. I dress in hoodies and sweatpants cause i hate jeans. I love sports and i was better at kickball and track than all the boys in my school. My best friends are girls but i have lots of friends that are boy too. Though i act more like a boy i still look like a girl. I dont really like the idea of dating someone, though i can clearly tell some of my friends that are boys like me. I dont know the point of this comment. Im a tomboy, but i dont look like it.
Sophie Flec
Sophie Flec Kun oldin
I'm a tomboy to tomboys ruel
Valeria Ugalde
Valeria Ugalde Kun oldin
Frederick Henderson
Im one two and im 13 ben one since i was three people and my family says im gay but im not i lime boy's but lllloooovveee girls so yeah
Suqar The cat
Suqar The cat Kun oldin
I am a girly girl in 2018...
Alma Diaz
Alma Diaz Kun oldin
I am a tomboy. I am not ashamed of it (Why would I be?). My mom on the other hand, doesn’t like how I dress. She says “You should wear clothes like that” or “you look like a boy!” I usually just ignore it. I only hang out with one girl at my school (she is also a tomboy) the rest are boys. I like hanging out with boys because for ME, they are less dramatic than the girls I used to hang out with. That’s it. Nothing else, just a comment. K. Bye.
Arm Ore
Arm Ore Kun oldin
Holy hell!, I would love to have a tomboy girlfriend. Actually a-cup also really ideal for me. I know it sounds stupid. Like hey "why don't I just get a guy" but I'm not into guys. And it's such a shame that there's girls out there that are a cups that think that big boobs matter.
Hannah Raleigh
Hannah Raleigh Kun oldin
Probably the only story I can relate to
the ice dragon wolf
I love bottle flipping like Boy's
the ice dragon wolf
and I'm a girl
the ice dragon wolf
I'm one to I'm a tomboy to my favourite color is red and I have lot of friend that are boy's 😃😄😊
the ice dragon wolf
and I'm a girl
anime is bae
anime is bae Kun oldin
I'm girly/tom boy
gangstaa.meria breezy
This is relatable to me but ppl wanna date me though 💘
Person Who
Person Who Kun oldin
At my school if u were a tomboy u were popular and boys had a crush on u
jem's good life
jem's good life Kun oldin
Same I look girly but all the boys now I'm a tomboy but there is like no one of the boys like me
Emma Smith
Emma Smith Kun oldin
Same but I'm a goth tomboy
Tyrone Slothrup
Tyrone Slothrup Kun oldin
I wanna stick muh dick
Bruno Menezes
Bruno Menezes Kun oldin
Bonnie girl 307
Bonnie girl 307 Kun oldin
I'm a tomboy I'm a girl but love boy things like fnaf but I have a lot of friends girls and boys
Kara WasHurr
Kara WasHurr Kun oldin
No oNe liKES mE iM sO DiFFERENT. I literally grew up a hardcore tomboy myself, and majority of people don’t care.
Evie-Ru Trout
Evie-Ru Trout Kun oldin
You can dress like a girl and be comfortable. Just like a cute graphic tee, and jeans
Toxic Soup
Toxic Soup Kun oldin
Then stop fucking being a tomboy
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Be thick big titties big booty,boom mans like you
soccer fan
soccer fan Kun oldin
Same bro I'm a tomboy and have all the same problems like you
Lara MiniTV
Lara MiniTV Kun oldin
I am REALLY girly..
Kailey Riger
Kailey Riger Kun oldin
Don't worry I'm one time
gacha girl123
gacha girl123 Kun oldin
I'm a tomboy too...............and I just got a bf he calls me horse girl bc I love horses and my art teacher and my home room teacher......
Diamond Drone
Diamond Drone Kun oldin
Well yeah, a straight guy doesn’t want to date a guy.
Daniheart06 Kun oldin
Me except the opposite, I can't feel anything for anyone, I been bullied for so long that i cant feel anything. Literally.
Atavia Cain
Atavia Cain Kun oldin
Hey I'm a tomboy to and people call me a lesbian but i just don't listen to them cause I'm not a lesbian
WhySmileForLife Why
I'm a tomboy and I wanted to play guns and action figures but my brothers don't know I'm a tomboy or my family's I would keep it as a secret 😏
Savage Surgeon
Savage Surgeon Kun oldin
"When I tried to put on makeup and dresses, the boys looked at me weirdly." Lol
Ejiro Kirishima
Ejiro Kirishima Kun oldin
I am a tomboy and my parents think I am gay
Dylan Kelly
Dylan Kelly Kun oldin
Its not because you’re a “tomboy” I’ve met quite a few cute tomboys. You’re probably just ugly AF.
Thatpotatohascome Stone
I have 9 friends one of them is a. Girl ( not counting siblings)
Evelyn Ramsey
Evelyn Ramsey Kun oldin
I'm also a tomboy and I understand the feeling
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Warrior Voices Kun oldin
* whispers * *r/imnotlikeothergirls*
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